Settle Down..Settle Down???

Why do men {or boys} always talk this "I want a wifey..I am tryna settle down" but in the same breathe {or should I say website} talk this pimpin' sh*t "don't give a hoe nothing..every pimpin' n*gga kno!" ??? This has caused me some confusion..If u r a husband nd a pimp..does that make ur girl a wife & a trick????